Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Our Indian Christmas

I've finally finished taking down all the decorations and the Christmas tree! I took my time and worked at my own pace, unlike the frenzy almost a month back. I was desperately trying to pack forty-eight hours into my day. There were so many things that had to be done in preparation for Christmas. Cakes to be baked, gifts to be bought, traditional sweets and savouries to be prepared, decorations to be put up, furniture to be upholstered, carpet to be replaced, party to be planned...it was endless. Oh yes ! The salon, how could that be left out. The last thing I needed on Christmas was bad hair, dull skin and rough hands.

How I love Christmas. The whole world seems so beautiful and happy in its preparation to celebrate the birth of Jesus. Personally, I feel more charitable; more forgiving; able to overlook the meanness of people and truly meet it with joy and love. Whether you are a believer or not, nevertheless the spirit of Christmas embraces you with love and a feeling of caring and sharing.

The malls are decorated. Santa caps sell like hot cakes. People like to strut about with these red caps. The church is open throughout the day for people of other faiths, who come in a continuous stream to pray, despite the cold, even at midnight on Christmas Eve.

All of us 'busy' folk who don't find time to go to church throughout the year, can be seen in the front pews on Christmas in our Sunday Best.

" Seasonal Christians," whisper the hoity-toity regulars, and then don their church faces.

I smile and bow my head to thank God for making it possible for me to be in His House to share in the joy of His birth.

" I'm a seasonal churchgoer but a regular Christian," I whisper to my neighbour, who raises her eyebrows as we all rise to sing.

I've never been able to outgrow the excitement and pleasure of buying and receiving Christmas gifts. The hunt for the right gifts, the mental arithmetic as you try to adjust everything into your budget, the minor disappointments, the major delight in giving and receiving " just what I wanted " gifts.

An overflow of this feeling is also present in my culinary pursuits. The most arduous task is making salt meat. The entire process takes about ten-twelve days. And the beetroot wine takes longer. However this is a simpler preparation which only needs time to ferment. The successes and disasters in the kitchen, as the goodies get in and out of the oven and the fry pan, fill the home with laughter and much consoling too.

Decorating the house and tree is a family affair. As each one pitches in. At times it does run into mild differences of opinion, which are quickly resolved....That's the spirit of Christmas. The flower rangoli is designed and diyas placed at the entrance as well as a wreath on the door! Tea lights are put on the balcony wall. Candles of various shapes and sizes are a part of the decor. The ubiquitous star is hung from the ceiling in the balcony.

Finally when all the baubles, tinsel, lights, tree, bells and bows are in place and the cakes, sweets and savouries are done --- It's Christmas Eve and the refrain of 'Silent Night, Holy Night...' wafts through the house as we light all the candles and switch off the lights. The star hanging in the balcony is lit and it swings in the breeze casting dancing shadows on the walls. The wind-chimes pick soft notes. The carol is the only other sound as it plays softly...." All is calm, all is bright, Round yon Virgin mother and child.......Sleep in heavenly peace, sleep in heavenly peace..."

A transformation takes place; Such peace descends on each one; A peace that passes all understanding.


NOTE: Rangoli: An artistic design made on the floor with flower petals or dry coloured powder.

Diyas : Small earthen lamps.


  1. How lovely to enjoy the holiday as you do-in a true Christian spirit with warmth and joy!

  2. Welcome to my blog nothing profound. Yes, that's what it's all about...love!

  3. Joy, thank you for sharing this. It's so great to learn of how things look elsewhere, and to see some similarities is spectacular.

  4. Yes Janna, I feel the same way when I travel and find similarities with things I've grown to think were exclusive to us!

  5. Hi Joy
    Similarities indeed...except I have difficulty slowing down in order to appreciate it fully. I park myself on a pew every Sunday, but still I struggle to keep the world at bay and have a chunk of peace descend on me. I'm happy that you manage it, though.

  6. @Ken....You know it's been a very long journey of disciplining myself and learning to slow down, be still and allow peace to pervade. As you rightly say I've just about "managed it"...still more work to do in that area!!

  7. Thank you for describing your Christmas. I enjoy peacful moments looking at the tree lit with white lights and lights and candles elsewhere. I love that we celebrate the same thing in Christmas.

  8. Having grown a bit cynical of the festive celebrations of all faiths and cultures, due to commercialisation of all sorts crept into these, I am once again inspired to keep 'My Christmas' seperate from the world. So what if I stand alone and different, it is My Christmas too. Thank you for such a beautiful narrative. Slowing down... Hmmmm... while I liked the idea I cannot see if practically I can afford it, considering the lifestyles we have chosen to live. But it is worth aspiring (if not working) towards. And I loved the statement: "Seasonal Church Goer but regular Christian". Well Done!

  9. Hi Johny, it is a surprise to see you here... a pleasant one! I agree about the commercialisation, but we need not become a part of that. Thank you for reading and for your comments.